I met this woman on OKCupid.  She was a 99% match.  This was in the time when I still held out hope for OKC and didn’t understand to be the endless timesink that it is.  Thing is, she was not…

“Now what?” “I want you to take control. Use ME,” I said. “I’m tired. All this bossing you around has tired me out.” “You’re sure?” she asks tentatively. “Yes.” “Then let’s switch places,” she nearly whispers as she unbuckles the…

L hasn’t fully bought off on the idea yet, but I’m working on her.  I think we should have a contest.  We have two new blogs, mine and hers, and very few readers/followers so far.  I’ve been enjoying the process…

I read Sex at Dawn a few months ago, amidst the general hoopla the book was getting among the sex-positive, poly-positive world.  It’s an easy read, well written, engaging, entertaining.  It’s one of those books that can pretty well be summarized…

She is slender, has a boyish figure – she’s about 5’4″, and her breasts barely fill an A cup. She has a bunch of tattoos, including a big one in the center of her chest where a bigger girl’s cleavage…

Please only do this if it appeals. But I hope it will. Please pick a night when you’re free to go out. Dress better than you usually do. Maybe a cocktail dress or gown, and sexy lingerie – as if…

The new year has begun, resolutions are made, but here’s the one most salient for this blog, one that I left off my list: have as much fun, mindful sex as possible.  Join me for the journey….

The holidays aren’t all that conducive to sex for us.  Family stress, close quarters, etc. We had a nice French meal together and caught up on a week’s worth of family neurosis, having not had a moment to ourselves since…

On our way to see the “First Kiss” couple. The holidays have conspired to keep T and me chaste for too long, so, if nothing else, we will renew our memories of one another’s bodies. But this is in the…

This is pretty much my core fantasy – it gives me almost everything I crave sexually. It involves me and a number of women too large to count.  The women need not be models, or porn stars, or young –…