Custody of the eyes
In the world of “sex addiction recovery,” there is a concept called “custody of the eyes.” I believe this is[…]
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Your upcoming date
I know you have your kids, and are busy, but in advance of our “date,” I would appreciate the following:[…]
Read moreUp in the air
That’s where things are with L. Her husband has had some second thoughts about our relationship. I had told myself[…]
Read moreMy sex addiction, 2
As I gained control of my out-of-control behavior, as I discovered an ability to accept my desires and at the[…]
Read moreSex clubs/parties in New York – Chemistry
Chemistry‘s closest analog among the parties and clubs I’ve discussed is OneLegUp. Like OLU, Chemistry is a sensuous, sumptuous, occasional[…]
Read moreCute plumber
We had a plumbing fiasco the other night. I probably could have fixed it myself but the water damage was[…]
Read moreMy sex addiction
In the world of twelve-step programs, there’s a ubiquitous construct: the “inner addict.” The inner addict is a sort of[…]
Read moreSex clubs/parties in New York – Ddevious Delights
Ddevious Delights is the party I’ve been to the most. It’s not perfect, by any stretch, but it’s in many[…]
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