Mostly, this is because I’ve been distracted with the plight of my friend. She’s been on a roller-coaster, and I’ve been riding it with her, albeit at a distance. I hope to return full force soon.

For a variety of reasons, I won’t be writing about my friend for a while. Suffice it to say, she’s doing remarkably well, and she still needs money. So if you have it in you to donate, please do (but…

I’m in a bit of a relationship/sexuality jag, reading-wise, and right now, I’m reading The Erotic Mind, by Jack Morin. It’s a sort of pop-psychology guide to how to think about eroticism, desire, arousal, excitement, purporting to be a somewhat scientific…

The other day, I wrote, almost as an aside, that when a woman is sucking my cock, I don’t want her to be thinking in more than an ancillary way about my pleasure, and this got me to thinking. I…

So I’m not a big sports fan, and I don’t even know what happened in Barcelona in track and field, and I never heard of Michelle Jenneke before this video went viral, but… I’m sorry, it’s both hot and funny,…

I’m on OKCupid – as N. Likes, and as something in between N. Likes and my real-life alter-ego. T is on OKCupid. And we are on together. All of us – N., Nick, T, and the two of us –…

I just finished my second reading of Can Love Last:  The Fate of Romance Over Time, by Stephen Mitchell. It’s a little dense, and if you’re not into psychoanalytic theory and ways of thinking, you’ll find it baffling and uninteresting, I…

Early 30s, 5’3″. Thick, tortoise-shell glasses. Grey maxi-dress with black stripes. Strawberry blonde hair, in a bun. Big green eyes, made even bigger by the glasses. Thin lips. Wide, warm smile….

Most of you have never ventured over to Google+, and many don’t even know what it is.  Relax – if you don’t know about it, you’re not missing anything. But I maintain a somewhat Spartan existence over there, and once…

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