Territory
Desire & Power
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Inspiration
Read moreYour entire body will be still, like it or not. I need to go shopping.
Dom-ly-ness (or, meet the rockette)
Read moreI didn’t give the Rockette what she expected — I smiled, I asked questions, I insisted on consent — and then I left her bruised, sore, and a little scared of me.
Orgasm control, at a distance
Read moreI’ve been keeping Sofia on the edge for almost a week now. Everything I ask, she does. Should I let her come?
A brief meeting in a coffee shop
Read moreA brief meeting, a direct question, and an unsurprising disappointment.
On being demanding
Read moreI ask a lot. I give a lot. It’s not complicated.
Rejection – in the other direction
Read moreI’ve written a lot about being rejected, but what about when I’m the one doing the rejecting? It happens less often than you’d think, and more awkwardly than I’d like.
Desire as a public good
Read moreThe things I want from the women in my life are remarkably consistent, and that consistency can feel, to each of them, like a diminishment.
Luna
Read moreI meet, and prepare to use, Luna.
Meet the amazon
Read moreThe Amazon gives me an awesome blowjob – her mouth is like a warm cave of jello, with soft pillows lining the walls.
Tinder date
Read moreShe’s tall, toned, and joyously kinky — and our date got me thinking about shame, its absence, and why I need it lurking somewhere nearby for sex to mean anything at all.
Today
Read moreI want to see you in every stage of getting dressed — and I want every stage to remind me you’re mine.
Sarah comes for me (six times, quickly)
Read moreSix orgasms, a handful of photos, and the promise of more to come.
Advice (solicited)
Read moreA sexy young bartender asks me for marriage advice. My first instincts are not, shall we say, helpful. But then I get serious.
Lots to write, no time
Read moreSo many posts to write, so little time.
Policy
Read moreA formal, legislative approach to an informal, but important, subject.
Dominance, submission, feminism, and okc
Read moreAn exchange on OKCupid about dominance, submission, and feminism that I found… illuminating.
What are you wearing?
Read moreA simple request, really.
Thirty more minutes
Read moreI want thirty more minutes of her time, and I know exactly how I want her to spend them.
“you should wear stockings.”
Read moreSometimes a GIF is so fucking hot you have to break your own rules. Twice.
Another thirty minutes
Read moreFive minutes at a time, five times over, no coming. I like to be precise in my instructions.