Territory
Desire & Power
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Presumptuous
Read moreIs it presumptuous of me to imagine what happens next?
How it might go
Read moreA little fantasy about how our first minutes together might go.
A thought
Read moreIt’s only a matter of time.
On getting my cock sucked
Read moreA meditation on the near-impossibility of the no-strings blowjob for the average married man.
Sketchy
Read moreShe was trying to be less sketchy. I was trying to be less sketchy. We met on SeekingArrangement.
Sofia’s way – note from a distant buddy
Read moreSofia describes, in her own words, how she went from blog reader to distant buddy — and what, exactly, she wanted from me all along.
The first time
Read moreRoom 909. A hotel room, a command, a wait that I can’t sustain, and a first time that leaves marks.
Bend to my will?
Read moreI don’t want to bend you to my will. I want your will to curl into mine like shrink-wrap — no distance, no submission, just utter harmony. Maybe that’s not dominance. Maybe it’s just infantile.
Superiority
Read moreNavigating the minefield of CraigsList couples, where clarifying your sexual preferences can earn you a lecture on hetero-normativity from a former burlesque dancer.
Dom blogs and me
Read moreI’m dominant, sure — but I can’t write about it without also writing about my doubts, my moods, my humanness, and I know that’s not always what you came here for.
Weak women
Read moreI’m drawn to strong women who grant me submission, not to women whose submission I can take from them.
Watching
Read moreI like to watch you touch yourself.
Anticipation
Read moreMy cock aches with wanting.
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #3 – fucking
Read moreFucking isn’t the point. The sentence is more interesting than the period at the end of it.
On men (part 2)
Read moreMen have the ability to supercharge a sexual adventure, and they have the ability to shrivel my dick. The psychology of both is more similar than you might think.
Stag at a sex party, part 1
Read moreMy first time at a sex party was a letdown. My most recent time, I arrived in a very different place.
Third time’s the charm
Read moreI like to say “please” the third time.
“you don’t hit me hard enough spanking”
Read moreV called me out as a weak spanker. I took it personally.
One blowjob
Read moreMy cock is hard and I need to tell you exactly what I want you to do about it.
Should we speak?
Read moreYour mouth has one purpose. It’s not speaking.
