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Rules for distant buddies – and local subs
Read moreThese are just a few of my basic rules for distant buddies – or, if you prefer, online sex partners.
Intimidation (cont’d.)
Read moreMore on intimidation: I’m not intimidating at all, unless you’re inside your own head about the fact that I’ve had a lot of experience getting my cock sucked.
Intimidation
Read moreA woman on Tinder tells me I’m intimidating. This is too bad — for both of us.
Sofia: #1
Read moreSofia walks into the room dressed as I’ve instructed, and I’m not ready to use her — not yet.
Not yes, but not no
Read moreThe word “no” is poison to me — not because I don’t respect your limits, but because I need you to find another way to draw them.
Sofia
Read moreSofia’s body, in ten photos she chose for me.
Rose
Read moreA turbo-slut, a Tinder match, and the inevitable trajectory from first message to leaving the bar.
Compliance (re)defined
Read moreWhat I really mean when I say I want you to do as I ask.
On compliance
Read moreCompliance is a turn-on. Imperfect compliance is a turn-off. Don’t make me ask twice.
Luna(tic)
Read moreLuna is difficult, entitled, and spectacular — and on this particular evening, she was lying face-down on the bed, as instructed, her magnificent ass writhing in anticipation.
A simple conversation, a recent memory
Read moreA recent exchange with the Rockette, and its satisfying conclusion.
Instructions
Read moreA set of instructions for an evening.
Tinder strategies, part 1 – swiping
Read moreMy three approaches to swiping on Tinder, from mindless to attentive — none of which, it turns out, makes much difference.
Inspiration
Read moreYour entire body will be still, like it or not. I need to go shopping.
Dom-ly-ness (or, meet the rockette)
Read moreI didn’t give the Rockette what she expected — I smiled, I asked questions, I insisted on consent — and then I left her bruised, sore, and a little scared of me.
Orgasm control, at a distance
Read moreI’ve been keeping Sofia on the edge for almost a week now. Everything I ask, she does. Should I let her come?
A brief meeting in a coffee shop
Read moreA brief meeting, a direct question, and an unsurprising disappointment.
On being demanding
Read moreI ask a lot. I give a lot. It’s not complicated.
Rejection – in the other direction
Read moreI’ve written a lot about being rejected, but what about when I’m the one doing the rejecting? It happens less often than you’d think, and more awkwardly than I’d like.
Desire as a public good
Read moreThe things I want from the women in my life are remarkably consistent, and that consistency can feel, to each of them, like a diminishment.
