Territory
Desire & Power
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What does being “dominant” mean to you?
Read moreWhat is the definition of “dominant”? Well, I don’t really give a fuck. The salient question is, “What does my dominance look like?”
Two soft cotton dresses
Read moreTwo women in cotton dresses, standing against a wall, waiting for me.
Respect
Read moreWhat I mean by “respect” is not a universally agreed-upon set of norms. Here’s what I mean.
How i consume your porn
Read moreThe thrill isn’t in the image — it’s in the compliance. A catalog of the personalized porn women send me, and how I actually consume it.
Eva
Read moreShe’s elusive, busy, maybe a little ambivalent — but she’s sent me two orgasms, and in both you can hear her smile.
Pleasing me
Read moreToo much eagerness to please me is, paradoxically, a turnoff. I have some theories about why.
A first time
Read moreThe first time is always the best time. At least, in my imagination.
What might have been
Read moreA fantasy of what I would have done to you, had you not been so frustrating. Polite, rough, and unfinished – just like us.
A sub with a non-dom
Read moreA gorgeous woman from Tinder writes me for advice about her vanilla boyfriend. I do my best, conflicted as I am.
The sensation i’m reaching for
Read moreI want my desire for you to feel like a warm hand resting on the small of your back — persistent, unmistakable, but never heavy.
Send me pictures
Read moreI’m hungry. Show me your body — but do it right.
A first date
Read moreMy presumption is that you’re a slut who’s going to do exactly as I say.
Rough sex and aggression
Read moreMy desire is many things, but one thing it is is fragile.
Rough sex, cognitive dissonance, and acting
Read moreI’m exquisitely dominant, but roughness doesn’t come naturally — I go to great lengths to protect the women I fuck from my anger, and I want to understand why.
Questions and answers
Read moreA quiz, with correct and incorrect answers.
I want
Read moreA modest proposal.
Objectification and narcissism
Read moreOn objectification, the confusion it causes me, and the unexpected clarity that domination provides — and then takes away.
Rip tinder? (or, “good riddance, tinder”?)
Read moreTinder kicked me off, and I’m left with more women than I can handle and less appetite than I’d have predicted.
Dominance and maturity
Read moreI’m dominant, sure. But really, I’m just a four-year-old who’s big enough to take what he wants — and would prefer not even to have to ask.
You’re sucking my cock
Read moreYou’re not giving me a blowjob. You’re taking one from me.