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Porn and desire

Porn’s funny. Conventional wisdom holds that we use porn when we’re horny. But this isn’t quite right, I think. I[…]

It’s Thanksgiving, here in the US, and I’m genuinely thankful for much: 1. Above all, family: nuclear AND extended. We[…]

I sat in Starbucks putting the final touches on a gift for T. A woman ran in and in a[…]

Sometimes, events in one’s life have a heft, a magnitude, an awesomeness, such that it simply feels inconceivable that life[…]

As I lay back, your mouth on my cock, my head on the pillow, I think, “Why am I so[…]

I try to write soul-searching, introspective exploration of my sexuality. I like reading others embarked on the same project. Jillian[…]

People don’t, generally, go to sex blogs (and yes, I think that for the most part, this is a sex[…]

I tend not to write too explicitly about politics, though I suspect anyone who reads this blog can imagine roughly[…]

One of the challenges of swinging, or polyamory, or non-monogamy, or monogamish-ness, is the simple impossibility of symmetry. I just[…]

A while back, I asked for topic suggestions – either things about which I’ve written that you enjoy reading, or[…]