Lessons in commercial sex
Dear female reader who is starting off on SeekingArrangement (henceforth in this post, “SA”): I learned a few lessons in[…]
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Thinks I think
Creep shots revisited (again)
I struggle with whether creep shots are violating of women’s privacy. I decide to behave as if they are, but I remain unconvinced….
Read moreI want you to want me
Actually, I don’t. I thought I did. But I was wrong. What I want, it turns out, is different: I[…]
Read moreCarlos Danger
I’ve been following the Anthony Wiener story closely. I like politics. I like sex. I even like sexting. I’ve written[…]
Read moreOn narcissism
A loyal reader (and awesome fellatrix) recently wrote, in response to this post: *This* is why I keep coming back.[…]
Read moreEnjoying myself
I wrote, recently, about a complicated and interesting (to me, at least) night at a sex party. A reader asked[…]
Read moreCultural sexual hegemony and me, #5 – Moaning
“Female copulatory vocalization.” You know, chicks making noise during sex. When I paid for massages, some of the (less favored,[…]
Read moreCultural sexual hegemony and me, #4 – Blowjobs
I googled “Best oral sex video ever,” and this is what I found. This is not how I like my[…]
Read moreCultural sexual hegemony and me, #3 – Fucking
“The act” “Consummation” “Home run” “Fucking” All of the language describing penis-in-vagina intercourse suggests that it is the point. For[…]
Read moreCultural sexual hegemony and me, #2 – Nudity
I’m not a big fan of nudity. Don’t get me wrong: I think a naked body (male or female) is[…]
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