Polyamory and swinging
Dan Savage wrote a column last week arguing, forcefully, that polyamory isn’t a sexual orientation. This seems to me akin to[…]
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Dan Savage wrote a column last week arguing, forcefully, that polyamory isn’t a sexual orientation. This seems to me akin to[…]
Read moreI wrote the other day about how I sometimes use porn (and, incidentally, used commercial sex) not when I’m feeling[…]
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Read morePorn’s funny. Conventional wisdom holds that we use porn when we’re horny. But this isn’t quite right, I think. I[…]
Read moreI sat in Starbucks putting the final touches on a gift for T. A woman ran in and in a[…]
Read moreSometimes, events in one’s life have a heft, a magnitude, an awesomeness, such that it simply feels inconceivable that life[…]
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