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I’ve written this post before, I think. But I just found myself thinking about it again. I have a couple of favorite porn sites. They tend not to change. The two best for me, over the years, have been OnlyAllSites…

Every so often, I update my list of the latest most popular posts and pages. I thought this would be a good time to do it. (I was in a really loud coffee shop with 45 minutes to spare, and…

A couple of men have asked me how they can join in the fun of swinging and sex parties and the like. I’m sympathetic to their desire. I’ve had it at times. At times, as a straight man, it can…

When I wrote this, the biggest sin we knew Deen to be guilty of was overabundance. It still reads well, as long as you know that times have changed my view.

I just saw a poster for a new show: And it got me thinking. Cosmo always has silly articles along these lines, as do men’s magazines. But they’re all based on this weird, reductionistic assumption that seems intuitively asinine to…

She asked me this after I told her I needed to see her ass. And at that moment, I most assuredly was an ass man. There are some aspects of my erotic imagination that are, if not fixed, at least…

As I’ve written previously, one way of understanding narcissism isn’t as “incessant, adoring self-regard,” but instead, as “the centrality of the regulation of self-esteem in the conduct of one’s life.” This is me. I emerged into adulthood with the twin…

Arrogance is in the eye of the beholder. Regardless of what the dictionary says, if you think me arrogant, there’s no meaningful objection I can, or should, offer. Someone who knows me well said, basically, “maybe your acute intelligence and…

I’m reminded of one of the women with whom I had a relationship back in my CPOS days. I was then as I am now in many ways: the women who sucked my cock were women I got to know,…

I was recently told that I’m arrogant. Never mind the circumstances, except to say that, for a variety of reasons, regardless of what I actually think, circumstances demanded that I accept the premise, and apologize for my arrogance. My gut…