Sasha Grey

Appreciating beauty….

A fan letter to a porn star I admire — for her work, yes, but even more for her words.

What makes me look, and what makes me keep looking, aren’t the same thing.

Frisky Friday is going on hiatus. I learned something about hubris, laziness, and the limits of a tiny community.

What I mean when I write “I fucked her face” is usually a lot more gentle — and a lot more complicated — than it sounds.

Sasha Grey changed everything for me about porn.

What I do while you look down at me.

Violet Blue said what I meant, but much more better.

She’s my type, she loved her work, and she never apologized for it — which is why a certain PSA really puzzles me.

The blog is moving, and my mind is already racing ahead to what I want to write about next.