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This is what you did for me, #2 (part 1)
Read moreI directed you through the crowd, watching your ass, before we ended up in a champagne room with whipped cream and a dancer named Dee who couldn’t stop talking about your tits.
Oral at a sex party
Read moreA short dress, a dark bar, a sex party, and three marathon sessions between her thighs.
First impressions
Read moreSnap judgments, Birkenstocks, and ostrich burgers: a date that was over before it started.
You send me….
Read moreA shamelessly inspired request, and a meditation on what makes a picture — or an orgasm — actually hot.
Peak experiences, peak fantasies
Read moreBad science, good questions, and the hottest sexual experience I can remember — one I wish I could forget.
The meaning of paying for sex, of true submission
Read moreI am scared of my desire — scared it will swallow you up whole.
Can love last?
Read morePsychoanalytic theory, Oban, and the fragility of romance.
Creep shot
Read moreShe caught my eye. I caught her image.
Envy
Read moreT had a date. I stayed home, meditated, and sat with the ugly progression of emotions that followed.
Sex on a boat
Read moreWhite clothes, a river breeze, and twelve couples stripping down at a landmark.
Sex on a boat – the prelude
Read moreBefore I tell you about the boat, T and I need to negotiate what our son might one day read — and somehow that leads to the word “Daddy,” Oedipus, and my mother.
On t (part 3)
Read moreT’s ass looks great in denim shorts. But that doesn’t tell you very much about her.
On t (part 2)
Read moreOne of the loneliest parts of my secret life was all the interesting shit I couldn’t talk about with T.
On t (part 1)
Read moreThis blog creates a distorted picture of me as a hypersexual free agent. The truth is far more complicated, and far more interesting, and it starts with T.
Creep shot
Read moreA mother and daughter, competing for my gaze.
Labels
Read morePeople always want to label themselves: swinger, poly, kinkster, slut. I hate labels.
Distant buddy trust-building, in real time
Read moreI threw S under the bus, and she called me on it. Now I’m earning her trust back, one picture at a time.
An unnamed sex party
Read moreOf course the sex party was in a synagogue. For this secular Jew, it felt like coming home.
Le trapeze, once more
Read moreA hot night at Le Trapeze. On this evening, I departed from my usual habit of limiting my sexual activity to my date….
Trust and distant buddies (ii)
Read moreEstablishing trust with distant buddies, women I’ve never met and may never meet, can be a challenge.
