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The evolution of trust in paid dating
Read moreHow trust builds, one flaked plan and one awkward drink at a time, when you’re paying for companionship.
And the next time…
Read moreThe second time with Jen, I didn’t make the same mistake. I was in perfect control.
This is what you did for me #2 (part 2)
Read moreFrom the strip club to the hotel room, I directed your orgasms by text — and then joined you for the rest.
This is what i did for you
Read moreShe tells it better than I could.
This is what you did for me, #2 (part 1)
Read moreI directed you through the crowd, watching your ass, before we ended up in a champagne room with whipped cream and a dancer named Dee who couldn’t stop talking about your tits.
Oral at a sex party
Read moreA short dress, a dark bar, a sex party, and three marathon sessions between her thighs.
First impressions
Read moreSnap judgments, Birkenstocks, and ostrich burgers: a date that was over before it started.
You send me….
Read moreA shamelessly inspired request, and a meditation on what makes a picture — or an orgasm — actually hot.
Peak experiences, peak fantasies
Read moreBad science, good questions, and the hottest sexual experience I can remember — one I wish I could forget.
The meaning of paying for sex, of true submission
Read moreI am scared of my desire — scared it will swallow you up whole.
Can love last?
Read morePsychoanalytic theory, Oban, and the fragility of romance.
Creep shot
Read moreShe caught my eye. I caught her image.
Envy
Read moreT had a date. I stayed home, meditated, and sat with the ugly progression of emotions that followed.
Sex on a boat
Read moreWhite clothes, a river breeze, and twelve couples stripping down at a landmark.
Sex on a boat – the prelude
Read moreBefore I tell you about the boat, T and I need to negotiate what our son might one day read — and somehow that leads to the word “Daddy,” Oedipus, and my mother.
On t (part 3)
Read moreT’s ass looks great in denim shorts. But that doesn’t tell you very much about her.
On t (part 2)
Read moreOne of the loneliest parts of my secret life was all the interesting shit I couldn’t talk about with T.
On t (part 1)
Read moreThis blog creates a distorted picture of me as a hypersexual free agent. The truth is far more complicated, and far more interesting, and it starts with T.
Creep shot
Read moreA mother and daughter, competing for my gaze.
Labels
Read morePeople always want to label themselves: swinger, poly, kinkster, slut. I hate labels.
