Loneliness

I’m hungry for people. I’m hungry for Jude.

Didja ever get a blank postcard?

I am a dominant male sex blogger. I am polite, respectful, and demanding. Get to know me.

Rollercoasters and relationships.

Like any technology, porn can be used for good or for ill.

Paying for sex, and the Delta lounge.

A reader recently suggested I consider therapy. This is a ridiculous suggestion. Not because I don’t “need therapy” – I do. But because I am, in fact, one of the world’s largest consumers of therapy. Here’s a graph, showing Americans’…

I recently got some good news – a promise of something really good. The promise extended over a few weeks – long enough for me to worry it might not come to fruition, to avoid counting my proverbial chickens. Today,…

Writing a sex blog as a dominant man can be lonely. Sure, I have lots of sex, and have made good friends through this, but still. I think I’m unique, and I would prefer not to be.

It’s a bitch. Jack Kornfield once gave a talk in which he described his (and my) experience of it in which he said that it just isn’t particularly responsive remediation. It’s more like a fundamental fact than a response to…