Le Trapeze

A couple of weeks ago, I posted about a recent trip to Le Trapeze.  Today, in the comments to that post, I received the following: hi- not much of a comment but more of a bunch of questions. cuz you’ve…

I’ve never been a fan of the quickie. I don’t know that I ever actually had a quickie before this. And I’ve been replaying the whole thing in my head since that fuck. My usual way may be rough, or…

A hot night at Le Trapeze. On this evening, I departed from my usual habit of limiting my sexual activity to my date….

These are the top ten searches that have led people to this blog in the last month: 10.  creepshots 9.  take your clothes off as soon as you enter the room. i’ll be sitting in the chair. i’d like you…

Ddevious Delights is the party I’ve been to the most.  It’s not perfect, by any stretch, but it’s in many ways the closest to something that I find compelling/comfortable.  Le Trapeze is open Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights.  BCD,…

I’ve been to two BCD events.  One was in a health club in Jersey City (the promotion for the party had left us under the impression it would be in Manhattan, but neither of us is a lawyer – had…

I’m a newbie with respect to all this stuff.  Still, I’ve been to Le Trapeze three or four times, to Chemistry once, to Behind Closed Doors twice, to One Leg Up once, and to Ddevious Delights three or four times.…

Or maybe wishes? Or fantasies? I reserve the right to add more, but here are my top seven: 7. High-concept swinging Our dinner party fantasy has never happened. Yet. I really liked the fantasy, though, and I’m disappointed both that…

One of the challenges of being the sort of slut that I am – that is, an honest and exhibitionistic slut – lies in the ease with which a partner can come to feel un-special. There is a fundamental misapprehension…