Craigslist

I hadn’t seen the movie.  I placed a CraigsList ad strikingly similar to the one James Spader might have used to recruit Maggie Gyllenhaal as his new amanuensis.  I placed it in the “Erotic Services” section (RIP).  I got a…

Warning – this is a non-sexual post.  It’s non-erotic, and not a turn-on at all.  If that’s not interesting to you, read no further.  On the other hand, if you want to read further, read on….

The last couple of days, I put an ad on Craigslist, basically inviting people reading the M4MW and MW4MW postings to stop by here, take a look, and let me know if they are interested in… playing. Not playing in…

Amid all the press that Ashley Madison got a few years ago (back when I was a CPOS), I added it to my arsenal of ways of meeting potential partners. I bought a membership, wrote a detailed, thoughtful profile, checked all the applicable…

Or maybe wishes? Or fantasies? I reserve the right to add more, but here are my top seven: 7. High-concept swinging Our dinner party fantasy has never happened. Yet. I really liked the fantasy, though, and I’m disappointed both that…

Thursday, I’ll fuck L. Between now and then is one of the best parts of our relationship: the hard-on I can conjure almost instantly by imagining the possibilities. Here’s what I’m thinking: 1) Straightforward, traditional hotel-room romp.2) Give her the reins –…

Our plan:  go to a panel discussion on the representation of sex in “Mad Men,” conducted by a bunch of psychoanalysts; then, meet M and J, an Upper East Side couple who responded to a CraigsList ad; and then, go…