The first Frisky Friday Each Friday, I will host submissions to “Frisky Friday.”  The rules are simple:  whatever original material pertaining in some way to sex you produce – written, spoken, photographed, drawn, moaned, filmed – that you want to…

When the Anthony Weiner scandal came down a while back, I participated in a conversation among some septuagenarian men about the whole thing. There were gay and straight participants in the conversation, and unanimity on one point: Weiner must be…

In January 2005, I discovered a great blog:  Jefferson’s “One Life, Take Two.”  My life was in a bit of unexpected turmoil at the time – a good friend was going through an extraordinarily difficult time – a difficult time…

In a conversation with a wise man once, I distinguished between dominance and submission, on the one hand, and sadism and masochism, on the other. He scoffed at this distinction, saying the two/four were not even two sides of the…

The other night, I went to an event called “Poly Cocktails,” downstairs at a bar called “affaire.” I know it was downstairs, because upstairs, there was a campaign event for Corrine Narrasiguin, the socialist candidate to represent French citizens living…

Definitions: Slut: a person who sleeps with more people than I do. Slut: a person who sleeps with my friends, but not with me. Slut: a person who sleeps with more people than most. What’s your definition? Up above, on…

She greeted me in a spangly white tank-top, with shimmering silver panels, her copious cleavage barely contained by the cotton of the shirt. She wore a tight black miniskirt, her round, meaty ass almost visible at its bottom, her chunky,…

I’ve been thinking about guilt.  (I often do – it’s an interesting subject to me.) What is guilt? When I say, “I feel guilty about how I treated her,” what do I mean? Do I mean, “If I had it…

This blog has some things in common with The Honest Courtesan – it’s erudite and thoughtful, and features a fair amount of “meta” writing – writing about writing about sex, etc. It’s got a wide variety of things – straight-up…

This blog is the second in a series of those I recommend to you. This one is in some ways the polar opposite of the one I recommended yesterday, the Honest Courtesan. Where the Honest Courtesan is a cerebral, serious,…