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Thinks I think
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Shame, or, sonnet 129
Read moreShakespeare got something about lust that Steve McQueen didn’t.
Monogamy and its discontents
Read moreNewt Gingrich, open marriage, and some things you and I both know but rarely say out loud.
My sally field moment
Read moreYou like me! You really like me!
Writing about sex from a distance
Read moreThe Historian sent me her journal entries from our weekend in Miami. The fucking was hot, but the feelings were hotter.
Fucking, being fucked
Read moreOn the evolution of my fucking technique, from passive to aggressive — and the semicolons along the way.
Hourly hotels
Read moreChecking into an hourly hotel is a strange act of mutual acknowledgment.
Thanks for letting me fuck your wife
Read moreSome things are best worked out in private, even by a guy with a sex blog.
Privacy, secrecy
Read moreThe line between privacy and secrecy is thinner than any of us would like to believe, especially when you’re a parent.
Symmetry
Read moreLife isn’t fair, my grandmother reminded me. In this dissolute life, I’d rather it be interesting.
Custody of the eyes
Read moreNot looking at beauty made me think about it far more than looking at it ever did.