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Thanks for letting me fuck your wife

Is that what you say? What is it that you say when a non-poly guy, whose wife you’ve been seeing for[…]

I’ve written before about privacy and secrecy, particularly as regards parenting. I’m once again wondering about it. I hate the[…]

“Whoever told you life is fair?” My grandmother used to say this to me. She was right. One of the[…]

In the world of “sex addiction recovery,” there is a concept called “custody of the eyes.” I believe this is[…]

As I gained control of my out-of-control behavior, as I discovered an ability to accept my desires and at the[…]

We had a plumbing fiasco the other night. I probably could have fixed it myself but the water damage was[…]

In the world of twelve-step programs, there’s a ubiquitous construct: the “inner addict.” The inner addict is a sort of[…]

What is it about these words, “lover” and “play”? For me, they’re (almost) always a turn-off. Not just a turn-off.[…]

I’ve never thought of myself as an exhibitionist. I’m kinda shy, and have never consciously craved being seen in any[…]

“Jealousy” is what I feel when someone – someone whom I fear I may lose – wants something other than[…]