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Musing
Thinks I think
998 posts
The economy of sex
Read moreMichel Houellebecq, natural selection, and the frustrating economics of getting laid as a straight man.
Hotness abounds
Read moreThe city feeds me with an endless stream of beautiful people.
Boundaries
Read moreWriting about my sex life makes me feel alive. There’s a lot, though, you’ll never read.
Sympathy for the devil
Read moreI have more in common with Jeffrey Dahmer than I’d like to admit.
What doesn’t turn me on
Read moreStrip clubs are like shrines to a notion of male desire that is almost completely unappealing to me.
What turns me on
Read moreIntelligence, confidence, complete submission, grammar, yoga pants, and a very long list of other things.
Shame, or, sonnet 129
Read moreShakespeare got something about lust that Steve McQueen didn’t.
Monogamy and its discontents
Read moreNewt Gingrich, open marriage, and some things you and I both know but rarely say out loud.
My sally field moment
Read moreYou like me! You really like me!
Writing about sex from a distance
Read moreThe Historian sent me her journal entries from our weekend in Miami. The fucking was hot, but the feelings were hotter.