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James Deen, GQ, and soccer

When I wrote this discussion of a GQ profile of Deen, we didn’t know him to be a rapist. Or at least, a poor handler of a rape accusation.

People always want to label themselves: swinger, poly, kinkster, slut. I hate labels.

Lately, the business of being N, and of managing relationships with “Distant Buddies,” has been interesting. P, about whom I’ve[…]

Could you describe your orgasms for me? Can I be honest? I’ve asked guys this question before (boyfriends and friends),[…]

I’ve never been a fan of the quickie. I don’t know that I ever actually had a quickie before this.[…]

Establishing trust with distant buddies, women I’ve never met and may never meet, can be a challenge.

I was chatting the other day with Liza, and she asked me about the evolution of my “distant buddy” relationships[…]

There are a couple of different forms my porn-surfing takes: 1) Purposeful: I’m going to rub one out, and I[…]

Back in the day, I spent untold hours in strip clubs. I’ve written about it here and here. In my[…]