Tenderness
If you’ve been following this blog, you know that a key concern of mine is my likability. I want you[…]
Read moreThinks I think
If you’ve been following this blog, you know that a key concern of mine is my likability. I want you[…]
Read moreAnother thought about what sometimes puts people off about me, about this blog: my experience is a bit scary. Some[…]
Read moreThanks, Dan Savage, for contributing this word (and not just Santorum) to our language. L is working through her shit. […]
Read moreLately, I’ve been thinking a bit about how money works, about how it can simultaneously deliver and undermine fantasies. As[…]
Read moreI just want you to like me. I’ve written before about the relationship between my desire to be seen, not to[…]
Read moreTo date, my sex life has consisted almost entirely of assertions of my power and control. I’ve done this with[…]
Read moreWell, who knows about endings? Last night, L and I had a date scheduled – our first date since our[…]
Read moreThere’s generous, open, compliant submission. There’s freely given, but somewhat reluctant, submission. And then there are bratty subs.
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