Memories
This is a fragmentary post. I apologize – I wrote it and didn’t have the patience to edit it, to[…]
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Thinks I think
My wife is amazing
She is. I’m married to her. Have been for quite some time now. We’ve been through the wars. Hell, I[…]
Read moreSomething I like
Direct talk: If you want something from me, please ask me. If you’re annoyed with me, please tell me. If[…]
Read moreDiscomfort
There are devotees of The Ethical Slut who are militantly opposed to dishonesty anywhere in or among relationships among the[…]
Read moreIf you want my attention
Give me yours. It is, as I have written, a virtuous circle. I ask you for something – you give[…]
Read moreEye contact
Even when maintaining eye contact, our eyes move around a fair amount. If I look at someone’s eyes, and she[…]
Read more“No ma’am”
In which I am schooled by two very sexy baristas.
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What does being “dominant” mean to you?
What is the definition of “dominant”? Well, I don’t really give a fuck. The salient question is, “What does my dominance look like?”
Read moreThe edifice of monogamy
We have some sacred cows – beliefs that are so sacrosanct that we simply presume everyone shares them. Sometimes it[…]
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