Sex doesn’t excite me
For me to be aroused, to want to have sex, I need so much more than your hot body splayed[…]
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Thinks I think
As always, voice matters
I’ve written it before. I’ll write it again. There is nothing more determinative of my attraction to you than your[…]
Read moreSuperpowers
I just read, at the suggestion of a friend, All My Friends Are Superheroes, by Andrew Kaufman. It’s a quick,[…]
Read moreDoppelganger
A few years ago, I met someone with the same name as the one with which I was born. Not[…]
Read morePersonal ads
You young’uns don’t remember them, but before there was the interwebs, there were personal ads. In every town, an alternative[…]
Read moreSafer sex, revisited
I have no idea if I have herpes. I’ve never had an outbreak. But I assume I’ve been exposed. You should assume the same, I imagine….
Read moreMy, how things change
I saw this chart in “Wired” magazine. Can it really be that, on the continuum between “cowboy” and “missionary,” in[…]
Read moreAm I a Dom?
You don’t think I’m a “Dom”? I don’t give a fuck. Because chances are, you don’t make my dick hard, and I don’t make your pussy wet. So what’s the point?
Read moreFuck Tinder (#2,321)
I really like Tinder. It’s gotten me laid a lot – and allowed me to meet some interesting people. But[…]
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