How do I know I exist?
I sometimes forget that I am alive. Or rather, not so much alive as “extant.”
Read moreCategory: Musing
Thinks I think
Attachment styles
In which I propose an alternate conceptualization of the wildly popular notion of “attachment styles.”
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Helter Skelter
Rollercoasters and relationships.
Read moreSleepless Sundays
Sometimes I struggle to sleep….
Read morePrivilege, shame, and brutality
I can breathe.
Read moreStrength and safety, dominance and terror
The addictive elixir of submission.
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Edges: where the action happens
Why clothing is sexier than nudity; why lace is hotter than cotton; why fishnets appeal….
Read moreI’m sensitive
I torture myself.
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