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Musing
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Read moreI am difficult to please. Doing as I ask is simply not enough.
The world
Read moreIt’s a tough time to write a sex blog.
Helter skelter
Read moreRollercoasters and relationships.
Sleepless sundays
Read moreSometimes I struggle to sleep….
Privilege, shame, and brutality
Read moreI can breathe.
Strength and safety, dominance and terror
Read moreThe addictive elixir of submission.
Edges: where the action happens
Read moreWhy clothing is sexier than nudity; why lace is hotter than cotton; why fishnets appeal….
I’m sensitive
Read moreI torture myself.
Object permanence and fear of annihilation
Read moreInfantile wounds leave me vulnerable to the annihilating terror of ceasing to exist.
Separation
Read moreMy mother abandoned me….