2013

1. Slowly2. Quickly3. Gently4. Roughly5. Softly6. Forcefully7. Loudly8. Silently9. Sloppily10. Ravenously

You read my version of the beginning of the evening. Here’s V’s: I get there a few minutes early on purpose– my little way of having some control before the night begins. Being in the bar settles me into the…

If you’ve spent a lot of time in therapy (or maybe just if you pay attention to yourself a lot), you’re familiar with the following phenomenon: the situations, relationships, behaviors, which you tell yourself you most want to avoid, you…

I walked in, and looked around. She wasn’t at the bar. Of course not. She’d be in the back, where, once we were together, I could slide my fingers into her pussy unnoticed. I walked past the bar, and sure…

For years I bought T the equivalent of kitchen appliances as Valentine’s Day gifts. No more! I just had a great time doing a little shopping, with a little more to go. Yum. (And if you read this, T, no,…

In my eternal, narcissistic quest to learn what you (readers) like, what you don’t like, I’m trying a new plug-in on the blog that lets you “rate” everything – posts, comments. I would really appreciate it if you (especially regular…

I just wrote about how I don’t really like writing about sex. But this isn’t exactly right. Many of my posts about sex are in two or more parts – part 1 typically covers the part of the evening that…

I don’t really like writing about sex. This may be an odd confession, for a writer of a self-styled “sex blog,” but it’s true: I don’t like writing about sex. Honestly, what is there to say? There are so many…

Once upon a time, I wore a suit to work. Every day. That was before. I hated it. I felt like the suit was a part of the elaborate drag that my work world required of me, and I resented…