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Submission
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Before there was “secretary”
Read moreFond memories of a long-ago teacher of mine.
Collars vs. chokers
Read moreI like thinking about the ways chokers and collars are differ. As far as I’m concerned, chokers are MUCH sexier.
Insight into t’s and n’s sex life together
Read moreHow T and I spent a morning, including cats, a magic wand, some sucking and fucking, and just a little humor.
Black chokers
Read moreHave you noticed the latest fashion trend? I sure as shit have.
How submission turns me on
Read moreHere’s a recent exchange I had with someone who prefers to remain nameless: Her: Today I’ve found myself thinking about things that could happen [when we meet]… Me: Good girl. Tell me. Her: Where we’ll meet (hopefully I won’t know…
Eye contact
Read moreEven when maintaining eye contact, our eyes move around a fair amount. If I look at someone’s eyes, and she looks at mine, both sets of eyes move about quite a bit, even as we look at one another fixedly.…
A sub with a non-dom
Read moreI’ve entered into a relationship. It’s great. It hits every level of satisfaction except sexually. I’m frustrated and unsure of where to go from here…. It’s unsatisfying for both of us. To me, it feels forced. He is extremely attractive..a…
Compliance (re)defined
Read moreIn the context of erotic writing, compliance means, simply, “Doing as I ask.” But in reality? It’s somewhat more nuanced. Here are some things it’s not: Blind obedience. Abandonment of principles. Never saying “no.” I acknowledge that I may have…
On compliance
Read moreCompliance is such a turn-on for me. Imperfect compliance is such a turn-off. Some doms get off on, really enjoy, training their subs. I don’t. I have nothing against – enjoy, even, working with a woman who’s learning about (her)…
Dom-ly-ness (or, meet the rockette)
Read moreVersion 1 I didn’t give the Rockette what I’d led her to expect. We’d never met, or spoken. She was dressed as I’d asked, and prepared to do precisely as I asked. She expected I would use her. Wordlessly. At…