Over-determined
Read morePoor decision-making on my part.
The moth and the flame, continued
Read moreApproach, avoid continues, and I’m reminded of Poison – and my reaction to her. Poison, for those who missed her, is the woman who, years ago, set off the reaction that led to my understanding that I’m an addict. When…
My quest for rejection, my discomfort with acceptance
Read moreIf you’ve spent a lot of time in therapy (or maybe just if you pay attention to yourself a lot), you’re familiar with the following phenomenon: the situations, relationships, behaviors, which you tell yourself you most want to avoid, you…
Hitting bottom
Read moreWarning – this is a non-sexual post. It’s non-erotic, and not a turn-on at all. If that’s not interesting to you, read no further. On the other hand, if you want to read further, read on….