Blogging

My second mid-life crisis, in some greater detail.

For just a moment, I thought the blog was gone. Well, it was gone. But I thought I wouldn’t be able to get it back. Thank God – I was wrong.

Apparently, this blog is NOT one of the 100 best sex blogs. At least according to one subjective ranking.

A new list of the top sex blogs omits this one. My feelings are hurt, but only slightly. More than that, I’m optimistic about other efforts to help readers find the content they seek.

I know a creepy amount about my readers.

Do you like when links open a new tab? Or would you prefer not?

I’m good friends with the top sex blogger in the universe!

Kinkly.com made me their sex blogger of the month, I gave them a kick-ass interview, and I got NO traffic from it!

The evolution of my feelings about sex blog rankings: from desperate for recognition, to bitter about insufficient recognition, to something approaching genuine indifference.

A Playboy mention, some flattering analytics, and a meditation on what happens when strangers actually stick around.