Blogging

A new list of the top sex blogs omits this one. My feelings are hurt, but only slightly. More than that, I’m optimistic about other efforts to help readers find the content they seek.

I know a creepy amount about my readers.

Do you like when links open a new tab? Or would you prefer not?

I’m good friends with the top sex blogger in the universe!

Kinkly.com made me their sex blogger of the month, I gave them a kick-ass interview, and I got NO traffic from it!

The evolution of my feelings about sex blog rankings: from desperate for recognition, to bitter about insufficient recognition, to something approaching genuine indifference.

A Playboy mention, some flattering analytics, and a meditation on what happens when strangers actually stick around.

A roll call of my most devoted readers, and a nakedly narcissistic plea to know what keeps them coming back.

Someone’s threatening my friend Hy’s anonymity from behind a cowardly pseudonymous veil of her own, and it’s got me thinking about the ethics of writing about sex you’ve actually had.

What you read here and when I wrote it may have little to do with each other.