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Money for nothing and the chicks for free?
Read moreMy relationship to money and desire, and the ingenious, self-defeating system I built to get the former without risking the latter.
Massage parlors
Read moreA tour of the rub-and-tug establishments of my past, from the grim to the almost classy.
Distant rendezvous
Read moreA piano player, a dark bar, a plane ticket, and a pair of panties balled up in my pocket.
A nice view
Read moreA fantasy I sent to a woman I hadn’t yet met.
Leash
Read moreShe’s finicky, bossy, a little whiny — and she wanted a leash around her neck.
Taxicab confessions
Read moreA cab ride I’d like to take.
A fantasy of mine….
Read moreWhat doesn’t turn me on
Read moreStrip clubs are like shrines to a notion of male desire that is almost completely unappealing to me.
What turns me on
Read moreIntelligence, confidence, complete submission, grammar, yoga pants, and a very long list of other things.
She sits at the bar
Read moreI direct her from across a crowded hotel lobby, texting instructions while businessmen in khakis steal glances at what they can’t have.
Writing about sex from a distance
Read moreThe Historian sent me her journal entries from our weekend in Miami. The fucking was hot, but the feelings were hotter.
Fucking, being fucked
Read moreOn the evolution of my fucking technique, from passive to aggressive — and the semicolons along the way.
Miami
Read moreShe got a free vacation; I got her at a moment’s notice. It was a good deal for both of us.
Meet the historian
Read moreFrench theorists on her reading list, no panties under her skirt, and an invitation to Miami before the jazz even started.
Sex clubs/parties in new york – chemistry
Read moreA sex party in a Bushwick loft, with velvet pouches, topless acrobats, and a crowd that works in public radio.
Secretary
Read moreI hadn’t seen the movie, but I placed an ad James Spader might have written — in the “Erotic Services” section of CraigsList.
Sex clubs/parties in new york – ddevious delights
Read moreA weekly sex party in a borrowed Manhattan apartment, where everyone gets naked at 9:30 and you can still be home by midnight.
Sex clubs/parties in new york – onelegup
Read moreA review of one of the sexier party options in New York — where the dress code is white or nothing, and the crowd delivers on both counts.
Sex clubs/parties in new york – behind closed doors
Read moreExercise equipment roped off, bridge-and-tunnel couples fucking in the pool, and a vibe that wasn’t quite as welcoming as all that.
Sex clubs/parties in new york – le trapeze
Read moreA guided tour of New York’s grungiest, most democratic sex club — limestone façade, crudités, and all.