Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #4 – Blowjobs
I googled “Best oral sex video ever,” and this is what I found. This is not how I like my[…]
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Thinks I think
Cultural sexual hegemony and me, #3 – Fucking
“The act” “Consummation” “Home run” “Fucking” All of the language describing penis-in-vagina intercourse suggests that it is the point. For[…]
Read moreCultural sexual hegemony and me, #2 – Nudity
I’m not a big fan of nudity. Don’t get me wrong: I think a naked body (male or female) is[…]
Read moreOn men (part 2)
I recently wrote about the somewhat surprising prominence men have in my retellings of my sexual adventures. They have the[…]
Read moreCultural sexual hegemony and me, #1 – Big breasts
This is the first in a series of posts about ways that I’m a little different from what I understand[…]
Read moreChange is hard
If you’ve been paying attention, and you know me (and you have, and you do), you may have noticed a[…]
Read moreOnline dating and personals
Ferns, over at Domme Chronicles, recently posted about writing a personal ad. And I was struck by something. Her ad[…]
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