(Im)mortality
I spend a lot of time thinking about the future. When I meditate (and other times, too) I sit. I[…]
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I spend a lot of time thinking about the future. When I meditate (and other times, too) I sit. I[…]
Read moreQ. How many people are in your marital bed?A. (At least) six. The couple, and all their parents. There’s a[…]
Read moreI don’t really like either of the four-letter words in the title of this post. Which is a shame, given[…]
Read moreHunger Oral sex is eating. I go down on you because I’m hungry. I want to devour you, to taste[…]
Read moreLately, I’ve been sitting myself in bars, as I’ve written, and seeing what happens. Usually (I’ve probably done it five[…]
Read moreThere are two basic principles I find it helpful to bear in mind in relationships: first, relationships are co-constructions of[…]
Read moreI recently read a number of lists targeted at general audiences about “how to know your relationship is in trouble.”[…]
Read moreQuick thought on misogynist lyrics and rape porn, following a conversation with a friend who sees things (very) differently than[…]
Read moreI have a lot of Gmail accounts. I’m not, honestly, sure how many. In general, I have two personae on[…]
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