Why I eat your pussy
Hunger Oral sex is eating. I go down on you because I’m hungry. I want to devour you, to taste[…]
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Thinks I think
On certainty
Lately, I’ve been sitting myself in bars, as I’ve written, and seeing what happens. Usually (I’ve probably done it five[…]
Read moreMore on relationships
There are two basic principles I find it helpful to bear in mind in relationships: first, relationships are co-constructions of[…]
Read moreRelationship tips
I recently read a number of lists targeted at general audiences about “how to know your relationship is in trouble.”[…]
Read moreBlurred Lines
Quick thought on misogynist lyrics and rape porn, following a conversation with a friend who sees things (very) differently than[…]
Read moreI’ve been wondering….
I have a lot of Gmail accounts. I’m not, honestly, sure how many. In general, I have two personae on[…]
Read moreTwo flavors of shame
1. Cross your legs. That’s not very ladylike. Your cunt is shameful. Your sex is shameful. You are inherently shameful.[…]
Read moreCultural differences
We sat around a table – six or eight professionals, all upper-middle-class white people, all working in the same professional[…]
Read moreThoughts on what feels good (getting vs. having #3,245)
Over the last couple of years, I’ve had two connections – with L and with V – that have been[…]
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