Deconstructing monogamy and sexual commitment
Monogamy: Because of who you are, I won’t sleep with anyone else. If this involves sacrifice, so be it. Part[…]
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Thinks I think
Cultural sexual hegemony #6: Flat shoes vs. heels
We straight men are supposed to prefer women in heels. “Heels do wonderful things for women’s calves,” we are told,[…]
Read moreOn the sensuality of head
You thought I was talking about oral sex? You have a dirty mind. No, I’m talking about my head. About[…]
Read moreA sensation for which there isn’t a proper word
My cock is clamoring for attention. It’s not hard, exactly. It’s a bit firm, I guess, but more than that,[…]
Read more(Im)mortality
I spend a lot of time thinking about the future. When I meditate (and other times, too) I sit. I[…]
Read moreCrowded beds
Q. How many people are in your marital bed?A. (At least) six. The couple, and all their parents. There’s a[…]
Read moreSuck my cock
I don’t really like either of the four-letter words in the title of this post. Which is a shame, given[…]
Read moreWhy I eat your pussy
Hunger Oral sex is eating. I go down on you because I’m hungry. I want to devour you, to taste[…]
Read moreOn certainty
Lately, I’ve been sitting myself in bars, as I’ve written, and seeing what happens. Usually (I’ve probably done it five[…]
Read moreMore on relationships
There are two basic principles I find it helpful to bear in mind in relationships: first, relationships are co-constructions of[…]
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