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Advice (solicited)

“We’re getting married. We haven’t set a date yet, but it’s more than a year off. Do you have any[…]

I have, on occasion, alluded to a policy of mine relating to blowjobs: in general, the policy, goes, if a[…]

In some sex-focused twelve-step programs, they caution against “lust-based decisions.” At times in my life, I’ve made dozens of these[…]

Here’s an exchange from OK Cupid, without commentary from me. What do you think? N says: I’ve perused your[…]

Almost exactly two years ago (!), I wrote a post on “ethical non-monogamy.” That post resulted in (or was followed[…]

I’ve never thought of myself as arrogant. I’ve thought that, like far too many men, I have the distasteful habit[…]

People talk about sex addiction like it’s a thing. Every so often, I offer my opinions – opinions which evolve.[…]

I was rejected today. Not by a woman, but in a completely non-sexual, comprehensive, totalizing – and damning – way.[…]

Today, I had something happen that took me back. There are these two women I see weekly, one blonde, one[…]

Angela pointed out that while I described some things I like about blowjobs in this post, I didn’t, to her[…]