Policy
I have, on occasion, alluded to a policy of mine relating to blowjobs: in general, the policy, goes, if a[…]
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Thinks I think
Lust-based decisions
In some sex-focused twelve-step programs, they caution against “lust-based decisions.” At times in my life, I’ve made dozens of these[…]
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Dominance, submission, feminism, and OKC
Here’s an exchange from OK Cupid, without commentary from me. What do you think? N says: I’ve perused your[…]
Read moreOn understanding myself as arrogant
I’ve never thought of myself as arrogant. I’ve thought that, like far too many men, I have the distasteful habit[…]
Read moreSex addiction – a primer
People talk about sex addiction like it’s a thing. Every so often, I offer my opinions – opinions which evolve.[…]
Read moreThe hydraulics of rejection
I was rejected today. Not by a woman, but in a completely non-sexual, comprehensive, totalizing – and damning – way.[…]
Read moreInsecurity
Today, I had something happen that took me back. There are these two women I see weekly, one blonde, one[…]
Read moreWhat do you like so much about having your cock sucked? Chapter 2
Angela pointed out that while I described some things I like about blowjobs in this post, I didn’t, to her[…]
Read moreJames Deen has me thinking
When I wrote this, the biggest sin we knew Deen to be guilty of was overabundance. It still reads well, as long as you know that times have changed my view.
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