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Blaming addicts for their addictions is unhelpful. It is not “true” to say that Philip Seymour Hoffman was selfish; it’s a judgment, a subjective claim. I was harsh in reply to something Dumb Domme – a super smart, very thoughtful,…

Philip Seymour Hoffman’s death has hit me hard. Inexplicably so. Or maybe not so much so. Like he was, I’m an addict. To cigarettes and nicotine, for sure. And to sex, and secrecy, to the extent one can be addicted…

Deeply un-sexy post here…. For a number of reasons, I’ve been thinking about rape prosecutions lately. (Stop here if you don’t want to read my thoughts on rape prosecutions.)

A while ago, I wrote about my skepticism about Ashley Madison. In the last month, three things have happened that have caused me to reevaluate my position. 1) A good male friend got laid using it. 2) I got laid…

Question: Does your involvement with other women (real life and cyber) include women in their 40s like you, or are you mostly drawn to younger women? (asked by a female reader, in her 40s) I like women. I like women…

Well, not exactly. I was in a hotel elevator with Graziella (learn about her here; listen to her come here). We were either headed up, to fuck for the first time, or down, after we had finished and were headed…

Two years ago, I bought her a gorgeous pair of brown leather ankle boots. They’re insanely sexy, and the heels are a full inch higher than those of any other of her shoes. The gift was one of those that…

A week or two ago, I told you I wanted to show her to you. For the longest time, I thought she didn’t want me to. I’m not sure WHY I thought that – she’s never given me any reason…

Assuming you had willing partner/s at your disposal, what would be your ideal frequency of sexual activities? Please also detail frequency of particular acts (PIV, BJ’s etc) in your ideal world. It’s funny. That question feels very surreal to me.…

Talking to interesting, fun, hot women in bars. I never did it before the last six months or so. I have twice in the last three days. No expectations, not even any real hopes. Just pure fun.