June 2014

I ask a lot. I give a lot. It’s not complicated.

A fantasy I might just make real.

I’ve written a lot about being rejected, but what about when I’m the one doing the rejecting? It happens less often than you’d think, and more awkwardly than I’d like.

The Amazon says goodbye, and tells me about the man who owns her pussy.

The things I want from the women in my life are remarkably consistent, and that consistency can feel, to each of them, like a diminishment.

A woman at a conference, chewing gum, selling to dentists’ offices, in linen pants that hug her slightly big but unquestionably delicious ass.

A correspondent’s questionnaire, and my answers. Without explanation.

Hy and I bring you two more sex bloggers worth reading: Sinclair Sexsmith and Girl With a One Track Mind.

The unsexy truth about how I schedule sex.

Luna scares me — she’s too hot, too smart, too snarky, and my desire for her is so visceral it makes me stupid and vulnerable in ways I don’t write about well.