Questions

Just how lucky – and busy – am I?

In which I’m asked to imagine a distant buddy with my cock in her mouth.

“When you start to drift into a situation where you might make bad choices, you stop and meditate?  I understand the value of daily, routine prayer or meditation, but I guess I don’t see the connection to things that occur…

“Which do you prefer: restraints or blindfolds?” Um, both? Each is immeasurably better with the other. Restraints, though, are more work to implement, unless they’re the under-the-bed kind, and you’re in my bed. Which you’re not, and won’t be, unless…

“What trait do you value most in a woman?” Confidence? Openness? Curiosity? Enthusiasm? Oral skills? Some hybrid of those? (Do I really have to choose?)   “What are three words your friends would use to describe you?” Bald. Funny. Quick.…

“What is your favorite non-sexual part of a woman’s body?” I confess, this question confuses me. Twice over. First of all, are there non-sexual parts of women’s bodies? I’m not aware of them. And second, which woman? But let me…

“What do you think is your best feature?” Tough question. I mean, of course, there are all the non-physical aspects of me – my creativity, my openness, the way my brain works. But I have the sense this is a…

Hi. Did you see this? I am curious about your view on the desire/arousal distinction…I wonder if… you think women can be categorized as either having hunger or responsive arousal…:) This question, from a sexy reader who hasn’t yet sucked…

Any particular scenes? Why? I was asked this recently by a woman who, I hope, will not remain nameless. And I responded with two movies, one scene each. They both appeared in 1986, a crucial year in the development of…

A correspondent asked me the following set of questions. She asked that I “explain why [I] answered as [I] did,” but I think I’ll leave that for another day, or for never…. Flexible or inflexible (and I don’t mean physically)? …