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It’s challenging to establish trust and safety in online relationships. Especially, if you’re sending me pictures and movies. Here’s my code of conduct, how I propose to keep you safe.

I want my desire for you to feel like a warm hand resting on the small of your back — persistent, unmistakable, but never heavy.

I’m hungry. Show me your body — but do it right.

The Hollaback video was more complicated than I expected, and it left me with rules I wish I didn’t need to articulate.

A short thin skirt over black tights. Clara Oswald gets it right.

Tinder, once again, has decided I can’t be trusted to talk to people.

Playboy: possibly evil, but occasionally funny, smart, and good.

A woman I can’t stop watching, even when I should.

Descending a particular stairway at a particular subway station, I didn’t remember how I used to feel. I felt it.

A quiz, with correct and incorrect answers.