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Musing
Thinks I think
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Harassment
Read moreMy wife worried I’d get sued. I did some reading. I’m pretty sure I’m fine—but I’d love a first-amendment lawyer to tell me I’m wrong.
Apologies to commenters
Read moreBear with me while I sort out the commenting situation.
In charge
Read moreThe real turn-on isn’t the picture, the movie, the voicemail. It’s knowing you did as I asked.
Dominatrix
Read moreI’m not submissive, but lately I’ve been curious. A Twitter spat with a right-wing operative got me thinking — and writing — things I’ll never post.
Memes
Read moreSex-blogger reindeer games, and a few memes I’m inventing.
A note on commenting
Read moreIntense Debate is intensely aggravating, and I’m thinking of ditching it — even if it means losing every comment to date.
Exhibitionism and fabulism
Read moreCraigslist ads, dubious correspondents, and the question of what turns me on about a story that may well be entirely fictional.
The gym
Read moreShe wants me to write about her. But I write about what I think and what I do — and she’s not quite either.
Sympathy for the devil (2)
Read moreI have known monsters. They’re good, decent, kind, loving people.
Fleshbot
Read moreFleshbot keeps sending people my way. If you’re one of them, welcome — stick around.