Jealousy
What makes us jealous? For me, it’s invariably the fear that I’ll be jettisoned, whether because of some genuine shortcoming[…]
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Thinks I think
Money and attention
Lately, I’ve been thinking a bit about how money works, about how it can simultaneously deliver and undermine fantasies. As[…]
Read moreSympathetic
I just want you to like me. I’ve written before about the relationship between my desire to be seen, not to[…]
Read moreTo submit, or not to submit–that is the question
To date, my sex life has consisted almost entirely of assertions of my power and control. I’ve done this with[…]
Read moreUnhappy ending?
Well, who knows about endings? Last night, L and I had a date scheduled – our first date since our[…]
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Bratty subs
There’s generous, open, compliant submission. There’s freely given, but somewhat reluctant, submission. And then there are bratty subs.
Read moreHarassment
The other day, I wrote about Jade Moreyand all the nasty, filthy things I imagined doing with her and, in[…]
Read moreApologies to commenters
I’m trying to get commenting right – we’ll be mucking around for a day or two, and we may lose[…]
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