Musing

Not the sex tips you’ll find everywhere else — these are for people trapped in shame, not people looking to spice things up in the bedroom.

Letting go of L, and envying her ability to let go of me.

The top ten search terms leading people here are not what you’d expect.

Love is hard when four people are involved and only three of them are fine with it.

From George Costanza to Gary Sinise — and the secret society that opened its doors along the way.

On the right words for what I do in bed. Wanna fool around?

Don’t travel to fuck someone you haven’t met. Obviously.

Desire is strange: compliance medicates a deep, dark wound, and photo #126 of her ass is every bit as thrilling as the first.

There’s a tendency to imagine some objective standard of ethical behavior against which we should measure others. I’m not buying it.

Noms de whatever: the evolution from hiding behind “Grey” to being liberated by “N. Likes.”