Category
Musing
Thinks I think
996 posts
Change to my routine
Read moreI swapped the subway for a bike, and lost two hours of daily writing time. So naturally, I built an AI-powered voice memo pipeline to recapture it.
Developmental progress
Read moreThe core fantasy is unchanged, cast in amber. But my relationship to it — and to the distance between fantasy and reality — has shifted profoundly.
Dominance and submission
Read moreTo what extent is what’s good for the goose truly what’s good for this particular gander?
Reinventing strip clubs
Read moreThe challenge of reinventing strip clubs to appeal to today’s patrons.
Compartmentalization, secrets – and fear
Read moreI walk away in fear.
Fear and uncertainty in dating
Read moreI find that if I mine my interactions with, and feelings about, various women in my life, I can learn a lot of interesting stuff. Mostly around my fear and uncertainty in dating.
Reflections the day after a sex party
Read moreMore than anything, sex parties make me THINK. The day after a sex party, I’m filled with thoughts, imaginings, and reflections.
Narcissism
Read moreI write a blog, and have done for over a decade, so, naturally, I’m filled with narcissism.
Sex party: headed back to chemistry
Read moreI’m headed back to Chemistry, and very excited….
Hpv and danger/the danger i pose
Read moreHow dangerous am I?