Bend to my will?
There are doms who derive pleasure from bending subs to their will. (And there are submissives who derive pleasure from[…]
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Thinks I think
Loneliness and rejection
A loyal reader asked me recently about loneliness, and I tossed off a quick response: “… in general, I don’t[…]
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Superiority
From time to time, T and I have met people using CraigsList. We have placed a variety of ads, but[…]
Read moreDom blogs and me
I’m kind of a dominant guy. If you read about my sexual encounters, or about some of the instructions I[…]
Read moreSexy time? Not yet.
My current funk surely is, in some ways, related to my somewhat diminished recent activity as “N.” Regular readers will[…]
Read moreWriting assignment 1: smoking
Part I: Craving I began this post, “I found myself wanting…” but I realized that “wanting” is an entirely amorphous[…]
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Weak women
I’m drawn to strong women who grant me submission, not to women whose submission I can take from them.
Read moreSecrets – a fragmentary thought
Hypothesis: most of us have at least one or two things that we really really don’t want someone to know.[…]
Read moreI’m an expert at time management
If you lack in time management skills, consider hiring an addict to coach you. Addicts are, almost universally, masters. We[…]
Read moreOn being down
I’ve spent much of my life in pain. This doesn’t, in any way, distinguish me from anyone else. In the[…]
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