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My narcissism, #17

In another corner of my life, I’ve been reminded, recently, how gratifying it is for me when others approve of[…]

I say what I mean. I mean what I say. I choose my words carefully, and, if I don’t speak,[…]

I’m in my 40s. Most of the women about whom I’ve written are in their 40s. Or their 30s. A[…]

This is a fragmentary post. I apologize – I wrote it and didn’t have the patience to edit it, to[…]

She is. I’m married to her. Have been for quite some time now. We’ve been through the wars. Hell, I[…]

Direct talk: If you want something from me, please ask me. If you’re annoyed with me, please tell me. If[…]

There are devotees of The Ethical Slut who are militantly opposed to dishonesty anywhere in or among relationships among the[…]

Withdrawal is a suprisingly effective method of birth control. In spite of precum.

Give me yours. It is, as I have written, a virtuous circle. I ask you for something – you give[…]

Even when maintaining eye contact, our eyes move around a fair amount. If I look at someone’s eyes, and she[…]