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Musing
Thinks I think
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Toilet seats
Read moreA brief, uncharacteristic rant about entitlement, laziness, and porcelain.
Leering vs. hungry
Read moreThe difference between a leer and a hungry look is everything.
Does pussy size matter?
Read moreMen’s experiences of pussy size, and what we say — and don’t say — about it.
This is what not acting out sexually can look like
Read moreThe space between wanting and doing, mapped out in real time.
Upskirts
Read moreThe thrill of seeing what’s hidden, and why a willing peek beats a stolen glance every time.
Playboy and pussy
Read morePlayboy taught me wrong, and then porn corrected me. But when it comes to pictures, I’m still my younger self: show me everything, but hide the grail.
Schadenfreude
Read moreIf I feel pleasure in someone else’s suffering, it’s a bad sign — about me.
Anger at women
Read moreI definitely have anger issues toward women. Here’s how they work, and how paying for sex fits in.
Curls
Read moreCurls aren’t my thing because they’re natural. They’re my thing because they’re not.
Programming note
Read moreNot much writing lately, but plenty of thinking — about rage, empathy, orgasms, and happy hookers.