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Musing
Thinks I think
982 posts
Attachment styles
Read moreIn which I propose an alternate conceptualization of the wildly popular notion of “attachment styles.”
Tips
Read moreI am difficult to please. Doing as I ask is simply not enough.
The world
Read moreIt’s a tough time to write a sex blog.
Helter skelter
Read moreRollercoasters and relationships.
Sleepless sundays
Read moreSometimes I struggle to sleep….
Privilege, shame, and brutality
Read moreI can breathe.
Strength and safety, dominance and terror
Read moreThe addictive elixir of submission.
Edges: where the action happens
Read moreWhy clothing is sexier than nudity; why lace is hotter than cotton; why fishnets appeal….
I’m sensitive
Read moreI torture myself.
Object permanence and fear of annihilation
Read moreInfantile wounds leave me vulnerable to the annihilating terror of ceasing to exist.