2013

I want them. I want them all. Don’t come unless I say you may.

A while has passed since I posted my reading guide, and, in particular, my guide to the most popular posts on this blog. There’s been some movement on that list – some new entries, some that fell off, and I…

I. “I love you,” he whispers. “You?” she says, baffled. “Who are you?” “I want you,” he replies. “But who are you? I can’t see you!” “Feel me,” he says. “I can feel you. I can feel your breath, through…

I figured out who Alison is. Her full name, her employer, her Instagram (active), her Twitter (dormant). It took about twenty seconds, thanks to Google (and LinkedIn). I doubt I’ll call her, mainly because I’m polite, respectful. She has my…

Long red hair. Pursed lips, deep red, shiny. A grey scarf, wrapped around her long, thin neck. A tight top, over round, full breasts. A copper skirt, short, echoing her hair. Legs, bare, pale, freckled, crossed, revealing muscular, meaty thighs.…

This blog is almost two years old. Hundreds of posts. Hundreds. I would’ve thought that, by now, I’d have run out of things to say, like most sex bloggers do. Those of us who’ve survived this long are a rarity,…

Regular readers know I love Dan Savage – I think he mostly gives spot-on advice, with an entertaining tropism toward the harsh. He is generally credited, appropriately, with coining the word “monogamish” to describe that thing some of us do…

I wrote about my conversation with Alison and Tim the other day. It occurred to me that, on some level, the conversation we were having was, ultimately, one about the meaning of sex. The standard narrative about the meaning of…

Hearing that you want my words is also pretty hot, you know. I was just waking up and your email post arrived in my inbox and I basically just felt compelled to touch myself and I knew I wanted… actually,…

1. Her sleeveless dress is tiny, black. It stops halfway up (down?) her thighs, pale, creamy, white. The dress is tight – too tight for a morning commute – and stretches at her breasts. Her fingers and toes are painted…