Trust

I’ll be coming very very soon….

I want you. Forever.

Jo’s trust makes my cock hard.

I’m creative. My interactions with every woman are different, depending on the woman, my mood, our history, our relationship. But there are, as regular readers know, a number of constants in my interactions. Today, I’d like to share a little…

It’s challenging to establish trust and safety in online relationships. Especially, if you’re sending me pictures and movies. Here’s my code of conduct, how I propose to keep you safe.

How can you be confident about avoiding the possibility of avoiding revenge porn when sending me porn? I make some promises….

Sofia and I have an interesting relationship. She’s far away, we’ve never met. She sends me tons. We tell each other everything about our various dates. But sometimes, I fuck up. Repeatedly, actually, I fuck up. She has been clear…

Hyacinth wrote an excellent post recently on the challenges of writing a sex blog and living a life – keeping the blog secret from the people from whom it’s supposed to be secret, telling those you want to tell, and…

Some time ago, I wrote a bit about how trust evolves in virtual relationships. I thought I’d write a bit about how it evolves in commercial sex (or at least, how it did for me), since I suspect that’s actually an…

Lately, the business of being N, and of managing relationships with “Distant Buddies,” has been interesting.  P, about whom I’ve written a fair amount (Folly), has been having a lot go on in her life, and while I think things…