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Sex addiction
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Hi, i’m n, and i’m an addict…
Read moreAm I a “sex addict”? Is there such a thing? Is it a meaningful term? One reader delights in calling me a sex addict. What do I have to say about it?
Sex addiction?
Read moreI’m not addicted to sex, but I sure behaved like an addict.
Some days…
Read moreSome days I’m just horny — not in the old, addicted, craving-the-whole-dark-package way, but in the plain old healthy, no-relief-in-sight way.
Relative relapses
Read moreNot all relapses are created equal. Some cost you an hour and a difficult conversation; others cost you your life.
Sex addiction
Read moreSome thoughts about sex addiction.
Compulsive massage (part 1)
Read moreA granular deconstruction of the ritual of visiting massage parlors — from the craving, to the wave of inevitability, to the Blackberry full of taxonomies.
Melancholy moanings
Read moreWhen I wanted something, I had to have it — not out of weakness, but out of confusion.
Peak experiences, peak fantasies
Read moreBad science, good questions, and the hottest sexual experience I can remember — one I wish I could forget.
Questions about swing clubs, and le trapeze
Read moreA reader has questions about Le Trapeze, sex addiction, and going to a swing club while pregnant. I have answers.
On strip clubs
Read moreStrip clubs, sex addiction, smugness, and a visit to New York Dolls.