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Rejection
55 posts
Hope looms
Read moreHope is on her way. The anticipation – and the uncertainty – is killing me.
Abandonment, #4,121,943 (or, “life lessons”)
Read moreMy mother left me, and I can’t stop remembering it.
Fantasy and safety
Read moreMy core masturbatory fantasy has shifted. It’s much less bodily, much more mental; much less sensory, much m
Communication and respect
Read moreI’m a big fan of clear, respectful communication.
Just an omnipotent, narcissistic fantasy
Read moreI imagine myself at the center of everyone’s decision-making. This makes me vitally important. And profoundly vulnerable.
Thinking about my upbringing
Read moreA brief explanation of some of my sensitivity to rejection and abandonment.
Dating, rejection, abandonment
Read moreI had a great date, and then, I found myself confronting how much I fucking hate rejection and abandoment. Even as it’s not clear that either is happening.
Surfing relationships
Read moreBeing a sex blogger can be hard, but it’s rewarding, in often surprising and complicated ways.
Quick date
Read moreIt was a Tinder date. I wasn’t especially optimistic, and, it turns out, I had good reason not to be especially optimistic. I really should trust my gut.
Rejection
Read moreWhen you reject me, am I rejected? What lessons do I draw from my rejection? What is the meaning of my rejection? And is the rejection mine? Or yours?